Voice in Tapais head:
"There is no such thing as not having a choice. You will always have the choice. If you feel like there is none, it's either you are not aware of the choice, or you don't want to take the choice.
Either one, you should not grief or grumble about things that happen to you. It was your choice.
So make sure you meet enuff people, and read enuff books so that you can get sufficient information to make a choice.
Choose to choose.
Thank you Fazlina. "